Comments for Do This To Get Your Ex Back http://www.do-this-to-get-your-ex-back.com Do This To Get Your Ex Back Wed, 08 Jul 2009 17:17:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 Comment on Are You Lying to Yourself About Wanting Your Ex Back? by author http://www.do-this-to-get-your-ex-back.com/lying-wanting-back/comment-page-1#comment-15 author Wed, 08 Jul 2009 17:17:12 +0000 http://www.do-this-to-get-your-ex-back.com/?p=89#comment-15 Hey Trixy! I know just what you mean about fearing being alone. I want you to read this (when you're finished reading this message: http://www.poetry.com/dotnet/P8751148/999/1/display.aspx - it is something that's very hard for women to do - we're always programmed to be part of a couple. Be alone and be empowered by it - it's actually attractive to men. And it'll make you a better partner if you ARE okay with being alone. You won't be clingy, jealous, worried, etc. (if you are - I had to grow out of that). I would need more info about his mistake and how to get him back but it's doable. I always tell people to examine their role - even though he made a mistake - let's say he cheated for example. What led to him cheating? That's just an example, of course. Hey Trixy! I know just what you mean about fearing being alone. I want you to read this (when you’re finished reading this message: http://www.poetry.com/dotnet/P8751148/999/1/display.aspx – it is something that’s very hard for women to do – we’re always programmed to be part of a couple. Be alone and be empowered by it – it’s actually attractive to men. And it’ll make you a better partner if you ARE okay with being alone. You won’t be clingy, jealous, worried, etc. (if you are – I had to grow out of that). I would need more info about his mistake and how to get him back but it’s doable. I always tell people to examine their role – even though he made a mistake – let’s say he cheated for example. What led to him cheating? That’s just an example, of course.

]]> Comment on Are You Lying to Yourself About Wanting Your Ex Back? by Trixy http://www.do-this-to-get-your-ex-back.com/lying-wanting-back/comment-page-1#comment-14 Trixy Wed, 08 Jul 2009 13:50:56 +0000 http://www.do-this-to-get-your-ex-back.com/?p=89#comment-14 Thankyou for your advice. I guess im scared of being alone and losing the perfect man i had..im still in denial.but the mistake was his and he's the same person who called it quits. Should i move on? Thankyou for your advice. I guess im scared of being alone and losing the perfect man i had..im still in denial.but the mistake was his and he’s the same person who called it quits. Should i move on?

]]> Comment on I Want Him Back ASAP by author http://www.do-this-to-get-your-ex-back.com/i-want-him-back-asap/comment-page-1#comment-13 author Tue, 07 Jul 2009 22:06:10 +0000 http://www.do-this-to-get-your-ex-back.com/?p=97#comment-13 Hey Lexi! Well it happens, right? You have to first stop doing that. He needs breathing room and to see that you aren't going to go batty over him every time you see him/hear his name, etc. Space and time are YOUR friend in this scenario even if you feel it hurts. Then after a couple of weeks (2 min), put some humor back into the situation. Send him one email or text that says something to the effect of, "Hey - sorry I had a meltdown when we broke up. LOL I'm sane now. Hope you're doing well." Laugh at yourself about it so he can take his defenses down and feel like you're safe to chat with. And DO laugh about it. You will eventually. Then be back to a friend level - you have to build back up. After your 1st communication about the being sane again part, wait about a week again and then find a way to get together OR just chat again - such as, "Heading to ______ - have you ever been to this? I'm wondering if it'll suck." etc. You know, be causal and friendly. Without knowing more about your specific situation, it's hard to advise. Hey Lexi! Well it happens, right? You have to first stop doing that. He needs breathing room and to see that you aren’t going to go batty over him every time you see him/hear his name, etc. Space and time are YOUR friend in this scenario even if you feel it hurts. Then after a couple of weeks (2 min), put some humor back into the situation. Send him one email or text that says something to the effect of, “Hey – sorry I had a meltdown when we broke up. LOL I’m sane now. Hope you’re doing well.” Laugh at yourself about it so he can take his defenses down and feel like you’re safe to chat with. And DO laugh about it. You will eventually. Then be back to a friend level – you have to build back up. After your 1st communication about the being sane again part, wait about a week again and then find a way to get together OR just chat again – such as, “Heading to ______ – have you ever been to this? I’m wondering if it’ll suck.” etc. You know, be causal and friendly. Without knowing more about your specific situation, it’s hard to advise.

]]> Comment on I Want Him Back ASAP by Lexi http://www.do-this-to-get-your-ex-back.com/i-want-him-back-asap/comment-page-1#comment-11 Lexi Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:19:12 +0000 http://www.do-this-to-get-your-ex-back.com/?p=97#comment-11 Ok, so how do you fix it if you went the mushy, crying, overtexting route in the beginning? Ok, so how do you fix it if you went the mushy, crying, overtexting route in the beginning?

]]> Comment on Advice on Getting Your Boyfriend Back by Lewis http://www.do-this-to-get-your-ex-back.com/advice-on-getting-your-boyfriend-back/comment-page-1#comment-2 Lewis Sat, 19 Jul 2008 18:24:29 +0000 http://www.mlmteam.squidoobump.com/?p=6#comment-2 Hello! This is a really nice blog you've got. I love the color scheme! ;) Lewis Hello!

This is a really nice blog you’ve got. I love the color scheme! ;)

Lewis

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