“Help Me Get My Ex Back!”

Whether you’ve been dumped or you dumped someone else, it hurts when the ties of a relationship have been severed and you want nothing more than to get your ex back in your life for good. You’ve been left with a hole in your heart and you need your ex boyfriend or girlfriend back as soon as humanly possible. I can help. But there are some rules to the game of love and they’re pretty much the same for both men and women, with a few important differences that I touch on my ‘get your ex back blog.’

Don’t overdose on contact with him or her. Don’t try to communicate your ex too soon after a break up no matter how much your heart cries for it. There is something many men and women find disgusting and repulsive about someone who clings and grovels – it’s not attractive and certainly not the way you’re going to get your ex back. Stop all communication for several weeks. No phoning or text messaging. No emails, either.

Fix yourself up. Whether you can get back with your ex or not, you will still want to take yourself in for some detailing, just like you would a car. Maybe you even need a complete overhaul. When we’re in comfortable relationships, we tend to let ourselves go – so spruce yourself up with a new haircut or color. Tone your abs and whittle away the extra baggage around your waist. Swap out your wardrobe to update your style. All of this will be noticed by your ex.

Get out and start to date. “But wait, I don’t want anyone else – I want my ex back!” Exactly. And in order to do that you need to mix it up with friends of the opposite sex – it doesn’t mean you have to go have sex with them. Have fun. Be seen out and about and available.

Be the man or woman you know your ex wants. When they see they might be replaced, they could panic and reach out to you to make sure they don’t lose you. Chances are he or she is still interested, but for whatever reason they needed a break. Just be whoever it was that they fell for in the first place. Before you leave, enter your name and email address below and I’ll deliver some more tips directly to your inbox for you that will help you get your ex back sooner rather than later.

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